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		<title>How To Deal With Difficult People</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Jan 2011 04:05:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kit Welchlin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is estimated the 20 –21% of our population can be classified as difficult people. No matter where you go, or what you do, it&#8217;s an almost &#8220;sure thing&#8221; you will have one to deal with. Sometimes they&#8217;re outright mean; &#8230; <a href="http://www.welchlin.com/dealing-with-difficult-people/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>It is estimated the 20 –21% of our population can be classified as  difficult people.  No matter where you go, or what you do, it&#8217;s an almost &#8220;sure thing&#8221; you will have one to deal with.</p>
<p>Sometimes they&#8217;re outright mean; sometimes they smile as they ever so gently slide the dagger into your ego.  But what can you do?</p>
<p>Watch this video of a recent news interview where I explain how to deal with difficult people:</p>
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<p>To Your Success!</p>
<p>Kit Welchlin</p>
<p>P.S. One place you&#8217;re likely to encounter difficult people (or otherwise rational people who can become difficult) is at the negotiation table.  <a href="http://www.welchlin.com/negotiation/" target="_blank">Click here to read a special report</a> I have created called &#8220;The 5 Laws Of Negotiation.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Does The Very Idea Of Negotiating Make You Feel Like A Loser?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Jan 2011 02:28:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kit Welchlin</dc:creator>
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<p>I&#8217;m willing to bet the very word &#8220;negotiation&#8221; gives you some sort of bad feeling.</p>
<p>Maybe you&#8217;re worried that today&#8217;s friends and esteemed valued colleagues will become instant enemies, or at least rivals who may be out to get you, as a simple effort to agreement degrades into a &#8220;turf war&#8221; &#8211; or worse.</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-11" title="negotiation-3_175" src="http://www.welchlin.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/negotiation-3_1751.jpg" alt="" width="185" height="278" />Perhaps you dread the feeling of endless meetings, back-and-forths, answering the same questions over and over, and circular discussions that keep ending up right where they started.</p>
<p>Possibly, you are reminded of the phrase &#8220;one step forward, two steps back.&#8221;</p>
<p><em><strong>Well, there&#8217;s a better way.</strong></em></p>
<p>I have put together a special report, based on my 20+ years of experience working with companies, organizations, and groups of all sizes and many types.  There are a few factors that impact every negotiation that few people even know about, much less-think about.  In this report, I reveal and explain them to you, so it&#8217;s no longer a mystery.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s called &#8220;The Five Laws of Negotiation&#8221; and I invite you to read it right now.  Just <a href="http://www.welchlin.com/negotiation/" target="_blank">click here now</a> and follow the simple instructions and you&#8217;ll have the report in front of you in less than 30 seconds.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Do it now </strong></span>- you&#8217;ll be glad you did.</p>
<p>To Your Success!</p>
<p>Kit Welchlin</p>
<p>P.S. After you <a href="http://www.welchlin.com/negotiation/" target="_blank">read the report</a>, be sure to let me know your thoughts on negotiation, as well as your challenges.  I want to help.</p>
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		<title>The &#8220;I Am&#8221; Card</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Dec 2010 02:10:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kit Welchlin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the past there have been some decisions I made, some shortcuts I took, that I really didn&#8217;t like and wouldn&#8217;t make again. I bet there&#8217;s a few things in your past that you&#8217;d do anything to have a &#8220;do-over&#8221; &#8230; <a href="http://www.welchlin.com/the-i-am-card/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>In the past there have been some decisions I made, some shortcuts I took, that I really didn&#8217;t like and wouldn&#8217;t make again.</p>
<p>I bet there&#8217;s a few things in your past that you&#8217;d do anything to have a &#8220;do-over&#8221; on, too.</p>
<p>Watch this short video clip where I show you a simple but effective technique to help you make better decisions:</p>
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<p>To Your Success!</p>
<p>Kit Welchlin</p>
<p>P.S. For over 20 years, I have been helping audiences large and small develop these and other proven, effective strategies for working better, together &#8211; starting by working within themselves.  <a href="http://www.welchlin.com/presentations/" target="_blank">Check out my repertoire of presentations</a> and learn how I can help you, too!</p>
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		<title>What Controls Our Time?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Nov 2010 02:03:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kit Welchlin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are tasks and activities over which we have total control, and tasks and activities over which we have some control. Check out this video clip, where I explain the three &#8220;Tests Of Time&#8221; and how they get you more &#8230; <a href="http://www.welchlin.com/what-controls-our-time/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>There are tasks and activities over which we have <span style="text-decoration: underline;">total control</span>, and tasks and activities over which we have <span style="text-decoration: underline;">some control</span>.</p>
<p>Check out this video clip, where I explain the three &#8220;Tests Of Time&#8221; and how they get you more control:</p>
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<p>To Your Success,</p>
<p>Kit Welchin</p>
<p>P.S. What controls YOUR time?  Please share your thoughts and ideas. Let me hear from you.</p>
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		<title>Intrapersonal Communication And Daydreaming</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Nov 2010 01:57:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kit Welchlin</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When it comes to intrapersonal communication, we refer to &#8220;communicating within yourself.&#8221; In this short video clip, I explain more about the history of intrapersonal communication, including the concept we think of as &#8220;daydreaming&#8221;: To Your Success! Kit Welchlin P.S. &#8230; <a href="http://www.welchlin.com/daydreaming/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>When it comes to intrapersonal communication, we refer to &#8220;communicating within yourself.&#8221;</p>
<p>In this short video clip, I explain more about the history of intrapersonal communication, including the concept we think of as &#8220;daydreaming&#8221;:</p>
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<p>To Your Success!</p>
<p>Kit Welchlin</p>
<p>P.S. After you watch the video, please leave me a comment to tell me your thoughts.  I look forward to hearing from you!</p>
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		<title>The Johari Window Of Trust</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Oct 2010 22:02:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kit Welchlin</dc:creator>
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<p>Trust is based upon self-awareness and disclosure.  People must get to know us before they trust us.</p>
<p>One of the easiest ways to dissect this is through the &#8220;Johari Window Of Trust.&#8221;  Click the Play button below to learn more now, and be sure to leave me a comment with your thoughts:</p>
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<p>To Your Success!</p>
<p>Kit Welchlin</p>
<p>P.S.  Trust is a crucial component of negotiation.  Please be sure to sign up for my special report, <a href="http://www.welchlin.com/negotiation/" target="_blank"><strong>The 5 Laws Of Negotiation</strong></a>, to learn how to effectively communicate to get the best possible agreement with your prospects, customers, and suppliers.</p>
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